It’s finally happened!…sort of.

I know that scientists and sexual health experts say that 2/3 of women can’t have vaginal orgasms.  That didn’t keep me from trying over and over in the past several years, and with very little success.  Oh, I can have a clitoral orgasm just fine, but I want a vaginal/G-spot orgasm.  Everyone says they are mind-blowing and the best thing ever.  I knew it had never happened for me, and I was most likely incapable of it, but I kept on trying, and Husband kept supporting me.  We both held out hope that I could have a vaginal orgasm.

Now, before I continue, let me say this: it doesn’t matter whether you, personally, can have a vaginal orgasm or not.  Really, it doesn’t matter.  I mean that.  The reason we kept trying is we want to know everything that we can do in the bedroom.  We want to know everything our bodies are capable of.  If I can have a vaginal orgasm, well, I want to know that.
Moving on.  Remember when I got the Njoy Pure Wand?  I thought if anything could give me a vaginal orgasm, this could.  The Pure Wand has been revered.  Celebrated.  Adored and sought after.  I had high hopes for it, and Husband and I decided I should use it and see what happens.  After a little while, my arm got tired.  The Pure Wand is stainless steel and heavy.  I wanted to keep going, since it seemed to most definitely be working as intended, but I just couldn’t.  Reluctantly, I paused.  Then it happened.  I felt the familiar, rhythmic, involuntary pulses of my muscles that usually accompanied my clitoral orgasms, but much weaker.  But there was no feeling of release afterward.  No clear plateau, no clear resolution.  It merely felt good, then this weak pulsing.  I wondered if that was it.  I wondered if I just had a vaginal orgasm.  I did it again.  Same result.
Husband and talked about it.  What, exactly, had happened?  Pulsing, but no release?  What’s up with that?  Nevertheless, involuntary pulsing, even though it’s weak, does seem to signal orgasm.
“Is that it?” I asked Husband.  “Did I really…?”
“I think so,” Husband said.
Honestly, I feel a little cheated for two reasons.  One, I’ve been having that sensation for years, I just never equated it with orgasm.  There’s no resolution and feeling of release, and the muscle contractions are so weak I don’t feel them unless I stop moving.  I had no reason to equate those sensations with orgasms until I happened, seemingly by chance, to stop moving when I had the same sensation.  Two, I was promised mind-blowing, darn it!  Where is the amazing, nothing-can-top-it feeling everyone raves about?  This is it?  A few minor muscle contractions?  Well, darn it.
This the point where I remember that everyone is different.  It would appear that I just have weak vaginal orgasms.  There’s nothing wrong with my clitoral ones being much, much stronger.  But then I wonder if I can ever get to the point of amazing vaginal ones.  I’m going to work on my kegels and see what that does.  Or, maybe this is it.  I also wonder if more women are actually capable of vaginal orgasms but don’t know it because they are so weak.

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It’s finally happened!…sort of. — 6 Comments

  1. G-spot orgasms are weird. They are definitely more… amorphous… than clitoral ones. However, I think you still have more to discover. What I consider a G-spot orgasm is what happens when I thrust like hell with the Pure Wand for as long as possible. It’s hard, and my arm gets tired, and I want to give up, but if I keep going I’ll have an overwhelming, full-body sensation that I consider a G-spot orgasm.

    Otherwise, though, just being aware of the G-spot makes all orgasms better. I consider most of my orgasms sort of a combo of G-spot and clitoral these days, because I derive so much pleasure from my G-spot.

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